Love, Money + Relationships

I Just Found Out My Husband Has Lied to Me Since Before Our Wedding. I Need an Escape Plan.

This column was previously published in Slate Magazine. I’m republishing it now to give more people an opportunity to weigh in.

Dear Pay Dirt,

I’m 28, and I’m pregnant with my second child. I have no college loans, but my husband and I have a mortgage that we’d only be able to afford together because he makes much more. I also have a car loan. I make $50,…